Your guesses on why potential agents fail is comical. I read in the papers during the current health care debate many believed that people on medicaid are drug addicts, have mental problems. In the real world, things are seldom so simple.
I myself took courses for a real estate license, and took the licensing test. My wife of nearly 40 years spend the 1st 2 years out of college working as a real estate agent. I partnered with real estate agents. Whether they stay in the field or not depends on the economics of the particular job.
About 30 years ago, most of those jobs are commission based. The way it worked is the commission, around 5 to 6 percent is split 4 ways, buyer broker, buyer agent, selling broker, selling agent. So if a $100,000 property is sold, an agent will have commission of $1,500 gross. If you could live on $1,500 gross a month, you need to sell 12 such houses a year. Question is, if you're a newbie, can you do that.
Nowadays around here, the deals are different. An agent has to work under a broker, and the broker charges a desk fee. On the other hand, you get to keep 95% of either the buyer commission or seller commission. Question is, as a newbie, can you afford to pay a desk fee to work, that is pay someone to work?
My wife's best friend is a stock broker. Her friend tells us that 80% of new stock brokers wash out their first years. Why? The brokerage requires them to make so many cold calls a month, and be able to obtain so many new accounts this way. If they can't meet their target, they're asked to leave. But here, you earn a draw in the meantime which you don't get when you're s real estate sales agent.
On my wife's first year as a real estate sales agent, says she sold three houses. But she has to use her own car, buy her own gas, to drive people around to do showings. If your figure the commissions, deduct out the car payments, gas, there's little left. Then, her main complaint is she's forced to show overpriced houses she knows has a small chance of selling.
And then, there's a good friend of mine who's a real estate agent. Mentioned he had to go to a dinner one night, his brokerage is honoring a few "million dollar producers" for the year. I said "congratulations". He said "for what"? Explains that his commissions for year is less than $20,000, and he had to pay for his car, gas, insurance. What's left? A few years later, he got a job as a title company closer, makes more collecting a commission per closing than being a million dollar producer. I know bank tellers that makes more.
Now, there's plenty of successful real estate sales agents out there. They have the personality, the drive to make it. My wife's friend the stock broker, not only stayed, but was rewarded with her own office being a successful broker. She says the agents who washed out, asked to leave, do manage to open new accounts, but not enough of them. So what happens is these accounts are divvied up with those brokers that stayed.
In conclusion, my wife, my good friend the real estate agent did not do as well as they would to in the real estate sales jobs, and then went on to other endeavors where its a good background to have. As a matter of fact, we went into real estate investing . Nothing wrong with that, And I can assure you they are not drug addicts, or suffering mental problems.