Thank you all for your feed back. Our plan is to live at the property a couple years and do some renovations until we both graduate and have more purchasing power. Rent it out or flip before we move to the next place.
@Chris Mason Thanks for the insight, crazy how the rules bend for the government
@Brad E. I plan to go to a couple more lenders when it's time to purchase, we wanted to just get a baseline for how much we can afford and how much we'll need to save to get into a property.
@Melvin List I'll probably be better off using the FHA only without the grant to cover the downpayment. 3.5% isn't going to take a super long time to save up. I agree with Chris is that the sooner the loan can be refinanced the better.
@Thomas S. I should be able to afford a luxury item such as what? We will be married when we purchase I was just giving some background to the situation. Renting an apartment is also a liability if I am paying the same amount. I would much rather own that be making another person rich. I just have to make sure my number are right.
@Harjeet Bhatti can you explain a little more? I've never heard of lender credit. The interest rate is set by the state because I'd be using state money to cover the downpayment.