Appreciate all the feedback. I think my biggest issue is that I can go 4 months with 5 star reviews and get this one pain in the *** guest and give me a crappy rating. Or some major event (breakdown) happens with a guest and I take it all to personally. I own 2 cabins near each other. One is smaller and I get 1 or 2 issues a year because it's just couples. But when 6-8 people stay as a family with my other one it becomes very difficult to please every person. So I guess my thought was to ditch the headache and build smaller cabin that performs just as well.
I think I really need to work on letting things go that are out of my control. It's just hard when you genuinely care about their vacation and dont want to ruin it. Vacation rentals are a big roller coaster. Your highs are high but your lows are really low.
I own 15 local rentals and if something breaks I can get someone over there in a day or so. But in a overnight rental things need to be addressed immediately.