I hope you get it! I am having the opposite problem. My husband and I are trying to buy a certain house with cash (pre-approved short sale) for our family to live in, and outbid (by $6200) by someone with a Rural Development loan, which I understand is the same or more stringent than FHA. We offered over the asking price with cash, as-is, no contingencies except a home inspection for peace of mind. Before this the house sat for several months.
The sellers picked the other riskier offer because they offered a little bit more, but they are up for foreclosure on March 1st which is in 2 days! We then put in a backup offer for $85,000 cash in case the bank rejects the other. We haven't heard yet.
The house might pass the inspections. I know of a couple of things that it won't pass but they're minor, like putting GFCI outlets in the kitchen and installing a couple of downspouts. It's definitely a fixer-upper but I'm not sure if there's anything bad enough to ward of a RD loan.
So, I'm kind of hoping the bank won't go for a FHA/RDA-type loan in this case. I'll be interested in seeing what others advise you. So far it's been really helpful. Again, I hope you have more success with buying with an FHA loan. Good luck!!