What, specifically, would you do with the $12000 that you will get out of your 401K. You say get started but what does that mean, specifically? Would you use this money as the down payment on a rental? Would you use it to pay off some of your debt?
If you had found an amazing deal in NC and you needed that money for the down payment, I could see that, but to me, there's no harm in leaving your 401K in place until you have a very specific use for it (like that great deal). I would not take it out to pay debt. That seems short-sighted. And if you can get a loan for 1/2 and have that be 10K, yet you'd pull all of it out and only get 12K - it seems that the loan would be the much-preferred option (the loan is NOT considered income, as someone else said - here's a link that may help explain: http://moneyover55.about.com/od/preretirementplann...)
Also, if you are making a six figure income, I would hope that you could save the same about (10-12) K in less than a year.
Another point - even if you don't plan to retire from this place, you can roll your 401K over to a new job, or your own IRA once you quit. That money isn't lost to you by remaining in your 401K now.
You have time to clarify your plan, analyze deals and find a great one, and then take action.