@Wade G. Awesome thread! This hits home for me in so many ways and I find myself pondering these same thoughts everyday…I am really glad you threw it out there…
My wife…Well my wife supports me in everything I do and always has but there are times when I wish she would be the one on the internet looking for blogs and real estate forums like I do…Or looking for ways to build our portfolio…I told her yesterday “Babe, you need to really get involved more and get educated on this stuff…If something happened to me you would have multiple homes and wouldn’t know what to do with them…” She said “Cant I just have you teach me?”…I’m cool with that, but I wish she had the same eagerness I have. I guess I have to work with what I got; at least she’s not emptying out my savings account and bucking against my goals and dreams or spending our credit cards. She executes things I need done and she’s very loyal so for that I am thankful.
As for my inner circle…I have been thinking here recently about deleting my Facebook account or deleting probably 95% of my so called “friends.” On there…Why? Because every day in the newsfeed they aren’t talking about the things I enjoy hearing about. The things that interest me is success, goals, dreams, progress… I enjoy hearing the discussions that go on in these forums. These forums actually motivate me, while my Facebook forum sometimes aggravates me because it’s always the same stuff. Drama…I’m sure you see it as well…Probably the most interesting thing in my newsfeed is Mark Fergusons Blogs on “Invest for More.” Most of these people are people I went to high school with etc. and they just DO NOT have the same goals as me…So why surround myself with their thoughts? Why share my dreams with them, they have no clue nor do they want to know… It will literally drag you down…
Back home (I’m deployed) it’s hard for me and my wife to even find friends that can afford to hang out with us…I’m not trying to brag but I can give you a few examples. Last year we wanted to go to the mountains for the holidays (5 days). Nobody could afford to rent a cabin so what do I do? I paid a little more so that her parents and a lot of her family could come with us…I mean it was worth it I’m not complaining I really enjoyed their company and I always do, but if I had not paid for the cabin none of them would have come. Also when we want to go to Myrtle Beach for the weekend and get a nice room on the ocean, none of our friends want to tag along cause their cheap. Or can’t afford it…
Let’s just face it guys…Whether we know it or not, everyone in this BP forum is completely different from others in the work force. Everyone in this forum has goals, ambition, and they volunteer their experience because they are all about helping each other improve on their game. A lot of the people in this forum are the ones I would love to hang out with personally. Unfortunately we are all spread out. Just stick with what your gut tells you to do. I wouldn’t cut out the poor people because honestly poor people have taught me more in this lifetime than the ones who have money…The poor will show you what mistakes they made and how to avoid them…So consult with them just don’t follow them.
Hope this helps….Oh by the way @Michael Quarles you got me beat...I did it with 35k! lol