Hey man! I have slept in my pickup on surf trips to so cal- it's a fun life if you have money! But life is about more than money, that's why it's nice to have rental properties that crank out $4k+ per month so you can do what you want (family, travel, etc). Getting there takes some learning and risk-taking. My wife and I are only a fraction of the way there, but we are on the journey!
Step 1 get some steady income. You will need steady income $40K- $60K/yr with 2 years of tax returns showing that if you are self employed. This is to show the banks so they will loan you the cash to buy rentals. You can get in the game sooner with private lenders, but they are also going to want some proof of income. Sell rock climbing gear online, become a surf instructor, turn your passion into some income, save some money for down payments, get educated on investing for cashflow and you will be well on your way! God bless you, Alex!