As a lender, I'm having these conversations every week. You are not alone in feeling cold feet, so hopefully that makes you feel a little better. Now with that said, I think it's important to get back to your personal budget, and make sure you are doing what's right for you. The tricky part is you will be getting opinions from all types of people right now.. including myself. lol So again I'd take a hard look at your budget and ensure you're ok. Yes, the rates are higher and it's not always ideal, but like you said, the silver lining is your able to go secure a house right now without a massive bidding war. Hopefully rates come down in the next few years, and those that haven't bought will be battling again, and you will be able to knock out a refinance with no hassle. I do believe owning real estate is a massive win compared to renting, but again you have to feel good about it at the end of the day. Congrats on the house!