@Luka Milicevic - thanks for taking the time to reply
1. Yes, this was confirmed with my lender - single family only and specifically no duplexes, triplexes, quads - major bummer! I would definitely house hack that way.
2. Roommates definitely aren't for me, but I'm really interested in doing short term rentals (post Covid of course). I stay with my boyfriend every weekend anyway, so I could easily rent it out every single weekend. I also travel a ton for work and can rent it out while I'm away. Here's a great article about how short term rentals can be way better than a long term rental for house hacking, especially for 30 somethings like myself. "Why Short-Term Rentals Work Better for House Hacking" https://www.biggerpockets.com/blog/short-term-rentals-house-hacking - and you and I both know that Nashville is definitely a great city with high demand for short term rentals (again, post Covid :) )
3. I agree and disagree with you here. I agree that no one should try to time the market, and that's not really what I was saying. We could be waiting years to buy houses that way (years, not forever, because markets DO dip). I think I just needed some good ideas for exit strategies if I buy a home for myself that might not be overpriced now and will not be worth as much in a few years (or sooner) if/when a recession comes - I think the idea for short term rentals mentioned above has helped me with that.
To address your point though - We weren't in a worldwide pandemic that ravaged economies and caused unemployment numbers to shoot up in 2012, 2013, 2014, 2015, 2016, 2017, 2018, 2019...(I also notice that 2008/2009 was conveniently left off this list - to @Colin Wyatt 's point) I think it's a fools game to not have our eyes open when we have a black swan like this and to not learn from history and market cycles. Market cycles happen, dips happen - it's just part of the nature of real estate - this is what actually has been happening since the beginning of time. Optimism for constant, continued growth is also a fools game.
Now, will I wait for a dip? Nope, because, you're right - who knows when that would be? But I do have my eyes open and am watching for signs of market decline just in case I can strike harder and faster for my investment properties when it does happen some day. And I'll be sure to always have exit strategies that work, even if the worst case scenario does happen.
4. I'll check out these locations a little more. I used to live in south Nashville and loved the neighborhood. I'm really hoping to find something closer to West Nashville though-but I'll definitely keep an open mind. I already have an incredible realtor in Nashville who is working to find something for me, so we'll see what she comes up with!
@Colin Wyatt