" If you sell it - you're homeless unless you buy something else?"
People often downsize when they sell their primary.
"NO! I don't gamble. Everything I do is as close to a sure thing as I can get."
No such thing as a sure thing, but I understand how a rule of thumb like the 50% rule can make a deal much safer - but not riskless.
"doing what I do and what you're proposing (buying a property with negative cash flow and hoping for appreciation)."
No, I'm not proposing this. I'm questioning the validity of
a) a conservative rule of thumb like the 2% or 50% rule
b) having someone pay your mortgage is a sound investment
c) money spent on a home is lost
I don't think I'm pushing any of these views, just trying to learn. I see A as the wiser choice and better investment. I'm going to look for A. However, I'm not sure my friend is wrong when she lets tenants pay the mortgage, and a bit of the extra cost. I'm not (yet) convinced that property only makes sense if you have $100/door over all costs, or even all costs.
"The question is why would you buy a property with a negative cash flow hoping for appreciation when you could buy a positive cash flow property; have instant equity; and still hope for future appreciation?"
You are right, this is the best approach. But is everything else a loser? I'll need property management if I find a good place, I might not make it to 50% - I have an interest in knowing what is/isn't a loss.
"The 50% Rule has absolutely nothing to do with appreciation, rising rents, or inflation. "
Doesn't it? This rule tells us which buys are winners, and which are losers. If you don't follow this rule, you will LOSE money. But, if a person can select an area with favorable trends (appreciation, rents, inflation) - and I think this IS possible (e.g., the RE market is not that efficient), then I can see circumstances where someone can make money, even though they start underwater. I think my friend is making a modest return. She doesn't trust stocks, and she is happy with her decision.
"That's the two-edged sword of leverage. If you buy a stock, and it loses 20% of its value, you sell and still have 80% of your money. If you buy property with a 20% down payment (plus closing costs, making your front end cost more like 22%), and it drops 20%, you have to pay all the sales costs to get rid of it. If it drops 40%, you have to pay all the costs, plus the 20% loss to get rid of it. Better be dang sure that 1) you can sustain the negative cash flow, and 2) you're willing to ride a loser or sell on the way down. Lots and lots of people tried to speculate and got caught in the bubble and have, literally, had their lives destroyed by a single RE investment."
I understand. I'm originally from PA, so I don't know many people who went house crazy, then lost a bunch, but I know they are out there. My friend bought in 1998 SoCal, she still has plenty of equity in her home.
For me, I'm going to be looking post-bubble, but I do understand we could see prices go lower. Case-Shiller and plenty of other analysts believe it (although I have heard that parts of Cali are coming back). For the first time this decade, property prices are starting to look reasonable, even cheap when you find short sales (where I'm looking).
"How do you manage to own no property and pay no rent? Where do you live?"
And I don't pay taxes, either! :D I work overseas for about 8-9 months of the year. My employer provides housing. My friend does too. She buys a property every two years.
"While high inflation does tend to drive up the values of hard assets, like real estate, it also drives up interest rates"
I'm locking in a rate under 5% (actually much lower due to my Yen loan). This is another reason why I feel like it makes a lot of sense to look for a good first deal.