@David Fields I understand about the car. Something to consider in the future, if you are self-employed and an LLC or corp., buy the vehicle in the business name and have the associated debt in the business name. That way, when you fill out the Personal Financial Statement that goes along with every mortgage or loan application you do, you aren't lying by not listing it and it no longer counts against your personal debt ratio. I should have first said "I am not giving legal or accounting advice, consult your own advisors". That is also a step you can take now - ask for a referral from trusted friends/mentors to a decent real estate attorney, insurance person, and accountant. Start building your "team", even before you need them. I like to interview at least 2 or 3, just like a job interview. These are the people that you will trust your fortunes with. Good team=good advice. You are not going to do much to your score being at around 9% utilization. My point on that was more to help you keep personal living expenses tight. Glad to hear you are on the medical bill.
Kids make it more challenging, but not impossible. Our 2nd kid was born the day after I finished a large construction project that I was almost certain would ruin us financially. I never got paid a 6-figure balance that was owed to my company for completing the project. It caused us a lot of financial hardship for a number of years. That was 14 years ago. Our kids have seen us come from a very tough spot to a decent spot as they grew up. From an early age, we sometimes said "no" and sometimes came up with alternatives to things they wanted. Some things they wanted they never got. But the lessons they learned were lifetime lessons. It is tough as a parent to say no, but it is far more important to learn and teach how to live within or below your means. Everything should be on the table for consideration - can you get by with a less expensive cable TV plan (or no cable at all), can you save money by replacing burned out light bulbs with LED bulbs, can you mow your own grass instead of hiring somebody, you get the idea. Think outside of the box...for everything. We learned to do this out of necessity and 14 years later, still live that way because it simply is smart to do. Consider your home a "business".
If you are finding "good" deals every couple weeks, your deals aren't strong enough, in my opinion. Others may disagree with me, that's ok, my way isn't the only way. I've used the following description to explain it before. In my eyes, there are 2 ends of the spectrum, the sniper or the machine-gunner. The machine-gunner blasts offers out everywhere and hopes he hits one, or buys as much as he can in hopes one will be a real winner. The sniper, on the other hand, sits and waits in the weeds, sometimes for months or years, waiting for the perfect shot, lines it up and takes it. That approach has worked very well for me. It can get frustrating (I suck at patience), but it has allowed us to build substantial equity over the last 10 years of investing.
To explain further, continue running numbers on deals, but raise your own bar to the point that the only deals you would actually buy are the no-brainer deals. The mentor that once told me "if you find the right deal you will always find the money" shared that lesson right after tossing 4 different deals I had brought to him in hopes of financing them. I worked my tail off to present them and show my numbers and 15 minutes later they were in the garbage can. I didn't give up, I asked why they weren't bank-able, he told me, and I continually got better at putting numbers together and finding better deals. Eventually I started hitting solid, base-hit deals with numbers that just plain worked well. I still own those properties.
The advice on the real estate license by Jay and Lisa makes a lot of sense. I earned my sales license and later broker's license shortly after starting out. I did so to learn as well as to increase my credibility when presenting myself as a professional. I do virtually nothing with my broker's license currently except for deals that I am principal of. Keep in mind this does add new challenges regarding disclosures, etc. You will also want to work under a broker that knows investment property and is tolerant of your investing activity. My first broker demanded that I pay her a commission split on a property that I bought personally that was for sale by owner. She did absolutely nothing, had nothing to do with the sale, but still dug into my pocket. I found a new broker shortly after. I think this makes sense to at least consider. You will gain knowledge as well as grow your network.
I don't necessarily agree with Jay's comment about waiting to begin investing, but I don't disagree either. I'll try to explain by using a general example - every time a national "guru" passes through our area, I see all kinds of dreamy-eyed wanna-be investors show up at our local REIA meetings. Some of them get fleeced by the gurus, who convince them to run up their credit cards to pay for the "program" that makes it easy. (real estate investing is pretty simple, but not easy) Some of them actually buy a property, many of them pay too much for that property just because they were excited to buy something. Most of them end up doing nothing. If this is something you want to do, don't slip into the "doing nothing" category, but also be very careful before jumping into buying something. That goes back to my comment about doing the "no-brainer" deal with numbers that are just plain smokin'. That type of deal doesn't come along often, but you won't find it if you aren't looking at all. Use the "ok" deals just as practice on paper. My point here is to not do nothing. Get out there and do something to move forward, even if it is tiny steps forward.
Lisa shares a lot of great thoughts too. However, a couple things to look into further. I would not consider renting out my own personal residence for a second as an investment property. Why? The numbers will never work. I bought my first personal residence in 1997. At the time, I needed additional building and land space for my business. That drove me to the property that I purchased - it fit my situation so I bought it. A few years ago, my wife and I looked at our situation and determined it was too expensive, I didn't need the land or extra building anymore. We considered renting it (we had been paying on it for 16 years) and ran the numbers, it would never work and create positive cash flow. We sold it and bought another house more appropriate for our current situation. In the process, we lowered our monthly housing expense and related utilities/taxes/etc. by about $ 500/month. Our current home is also a horrible investment property. It would never make us money and we would never consider renting it out. Numbers don't lie. Read any Rich Dad book - your personal home is a LIABILITY, not an asset. If you had first run the numbers on your home and the numbers told you it worked as an investment, THEN you decided to buy it, I would change my perspective. I would be willing to bet that you bought your home because you liked it for your personal residence. Nothing wrong with that, but don't confuse it as an investment, it isn't.
I also caution you further on renting your home out as an investment property based on the fact that you have an FHA mortgage. Review the mortgage and note documents carefully first. There may be restrictions regarding it being rented out, they may require it to remain owner-occupied.
Please note that none of my comments are meant to minimize the comments made by Jay or Lisa. Something you will learn over time is to take a little information from multiple sources to develop your own best action plan.