Thanks everyone! That's why I love this place. There are a lot of great points that were brought up. I guess the other thing I forgot to mention was that that I wouldn't be completely missing out on buying a house, because we buy/fix/sell also. BUT in that scenario, we wouldn't be taking advantage of tax benefits available to home owners.
@Russ Draper I'm so used to getting taxed on everything, I honestly completely forgot about the $250k ($500k) tax free profit for owner occupied properties, which is a game changer.
@Melissa Warnock Yes, I do see how renting can get old. I don't mind renting (for now) because we are in a great scenario now, but yes it will change. We're getting a really good deal which is a huge plus, but living behind our closest friends and having our kids/families play (to me) is priceless. The guy next door to me bought his house with the intention of marrying the person he bought it with. I might have to ask him to sell it to me!
@Account Closed I think there was a misunderstanding in the way the scenarios I put out there were interpreted, but even then- I understand what you're saying completely.
My thinking with renting is that rather than buy a place in an area we can't afford, that we buy a place in an area we CAN afford, have that property cash flow and appreciate, etc. and pay the rent to live in the house/area that we want to live. The mortgage numbers for a $400k loan noted above sound great, but the taxes here throw those numbers off a lot. Therefore, we're not truly throwing money out the window in rent, we're letting the other house that we buy cash flow and pay for the house that we live in. BUT there are the tax benefits that were mentioned that I'm not factoring in and the renting will get old.
We just moved into this place 6 months ago to be in a better school district and for the opportunity to live near our closest friends and it's been great, but definitely not a long term plan. The landlord has no plans of selling so staying here isn't an option unless we rent from him forever. But anyhow, yes- I'll definitely need to re-evaluate!
Thanks so much!