Sometimes I arrive at a decision not by choosing an option but by eliminating all the other options. Maybe make a list of all the different ways to get started in real estate wholesaling, flip, buy and hold, house hack, etc.
Now eliminate what doesn't make sense, for example house hacking is an excellent way to get started but if you are straight up unwilling to live with a roommate or neighbor/tenant then cross that off.
Myself I can eliminate wholesaling because I work two W-2 jobs and I don't have the time to chase leads and if I'm making any phone calls its at 2 a.m. on my lunch break (nightshift) which I'm sure would not go over well with most people.
Now with the shortened list break them down like buy and hold you could buy with traditional financing, DSCR loan, BRRR. If you don't have capital for the 20% down for traditional loans eliminate that. Keep eliminating until you have just a few options left.
Once you have narrowed it down to 2 or 3 options that COULD work for you choose ONE and focus on it until you master it. Once you master it then allow yourself to explore another option. There are so many different ways to approach real estate investing its easy to spin your wheels and gain no traction. (Ask me how I know this!!)
Anyway hope that helps.