@Aaron Lietz
From your post it sounds like you are looking for a way to improve on your financial situation. Most mentors can charge you to tell you how "they" did it but that may not matter or be applicable at all for you. It all boils down to what you are willing to do to pursue what you want. You could become the best wholesaler in your area if you really, really wanted to - but it doesn't sound like you do. It is much easier for you to use your skills/experience doing what you are already doing - and making a nice living from it. It seems that many people think real estate is a "get rich quick" opportunity and the reality is that as with nearly all businesses, it is not. Working for yourself means you work longer, harder, and give up more along the way. So why do we do it? So we can control our own destiny.
From your description I think a different approach to consider is to do buy/hold rentals in lower-cost markets and build passive income over time. Eventually this will match/replace your current income, in addition to having a lot of equity and leverage. And you can definitely do this while working full time. There are turn-key companies out there that can take care of nearly everything for you - because you have more cash than time so you can find people to spend the time for you and pay them for it (also applies to syndication deals). In my opinion it is one of the easier ways to build wealth. If you aren't an expert in finding properties, wholesaling, rehabbing, BRRR'ing, managing, etc. then pay others to do it for you. You will benefit from the leverage that real estate investing offers.
And while everyone has their own opinion on mentors, I will share mine. Seek out the people you want to emulate. They may not be real estate professionals or professional mentors, what draws us to people is their success that we envision ourselves having. Find people you actually know who are having/have had the success you want for yourself. They are the best mentors because you will get to know them and by investing your time in them (demonstrating your commitment) they may invest their wisdom in you.