My journey to obtaining enough wealth to leave behind to future generations took a big turn last year. I worked from home for about eighteen months before going back to in-person. COVID opened my eyes to see what was actually important to me. I realized that my time and doing and spending it with myself and people who are important to me is more valuable than a paycheck can ever be.
My trajectory in life will be changing by becoming a real estate investor, beginning with purchasing my first home within the next twelve months. I have been saving $$, self-directing my IRA account, investing in stock options, completed the real estate salesperson course, and became a Pro member of Bigger Pockets. I also am in the beginning stages of the NACA application process.
I live in a rent stabilized apartment in NYC. I had to get serious about how I wanted to live in five years and change how I was living and spending my time or money TODAY. Two months ago, I thought I wanted to move out of NYC and go to Newburgh NY or in that general area. Why? Because it is more affordable and easier than the Bronx (where I currently live). Houses in Newburgh sell for around 300k while they sell in the Bronx for over 500k to 2m.
The thing that I didn’t take into account was the affect moving a long distance away from my job would actually mean. If I am valuing my time more, do I really want to spend three hours daily or more traveling back and forth to work? Do I want to spend five times the amount in fuel than what I am spending now? Is the wear and tear preventative maintenance costs on my vehicle going to increase significantly? How many hours a day will I be spending in this new home (besides sleeping)? Are my ezpass (toll) bills going to increase? Where will I be eating my meals during the week? Will my daughter have these expenses too, since she lives with me?
I have been analyzing deals for the past month and a half, almost daily or at least once a weekly. My first home will be a small multifamily. I have never owned a property before. One thing that the calculator doesn’t account for is the fixed and variable expenses that come into the picture when buying and owner occupying a property that is much further away from where you live.
I realize that I do not want to live a long distance from my job. I don’t plan on quitting my job anytime soon because I love what I do for a living. I do not want to buy a home that I will not be able to enjoy every single day. I would be spending most of my day at work or traveling. I do not want to spend$ 5x on fuel, 3x on tolls, or eat all my meals outside my home. I do not want to spend over three hours a day traveling to and from home and work. I do not want to add that financial burden on my college student daughter.
A great important consideration for those of us wishing to move out of expensive urban areas, like NYC, into less expensive suburban areas is - how much will this actually cost me? We cannot simply look at what our PITI (Principal Interest Taxes Insurance) expenses are. Just because our PITI looks low, we may be spending a lot more for things that we have to put in place in order to live in a less expensive housing market.
It took a few weeks or analyzing deals and lots of self-reflection. I had to get real with myself and not get caught up with home buying fever just because the talking heads are saying that home prices will just continue to go up. I will not miss out on my opportunity in the future. I have to be particular of where I buy because I am the one that will deal with the expenses that will come with my decision.
Has anyone else encountered this issue when deciding where to buy?