I personally hate asking my money guy to open up his bank account to a stranger to show this proof when his web site has over 200 of his homes from 30 years in the business.
I got pissed off at the thought of that request. I told one [REMOVED] from Texas, "[Money Guy] doesn't tap dance for anyone. He's been doing this for 30 years."
He didn't like that my money guy blacked out his account number on a bank statement that said he had over $600,000 in the kitty. He responded, "I need to call the bank and say 'Does this account have $600,000 in it' or it's not good enough for me. Bye!" (At this point, I offered to have him added to a phone call that I would start before with a bank representative on the line--to avoid him hearing sensitive account information--and he rejected this proposal: HUGE RED FLAG. I feel like naming him and shaming him by posting his phone number, but I won't.)
It was then that I told him that my money guy doesn't audition for anyone. And asked the [REMOVED] what's his fax number, who are his connections, what's his web site, who are his references, who are his contacts at banks in town, where is he based in Texas and basically gave him the impression that I was sick of his crap and was going to block him on the phone. That swindling, stumbling, stuttering [REMOVED] became really respectful once I pushed back.
Has anyone has good or bad experiences with people demanding SPOF/POF in order for you to do business with them?
For the people demanding SPOF/POF: if someone doesn't have funds, can't you just go on to the next money person?
Why are people so adamant about SPOF/POF?
What kind of access can someone have with a SPOF that could jeopardize the account or my money guy?