@Mike V. yeah, I have looked at personal vacation rentals that I could AirBnB/VRBO when I wasn’t there and I ran into similar issues. Long-term rentals are definitely where I’ll be staying.
@Jon Crosby as a consumer- I LOVE STR homes rather than staying into a hotel. Maybe the hotel industry is backing counties in these laws. The STR investment and industry was looking like it was going to take over the vacation lodging market- but now that's coming to an end. I had wanted to get into STR for my personal use as well as an investment, but I'm glad I never did!
@John Underwood yes I do see the concern from a neighbor's standpoint. I have small kids as well and if I were in a suburban area, it could be disconcerting. Maybe rather than shut down STR completely, they should enforce strict rules about noise, etc. or even sequester the STR to a certain zoning. I don't think the answer is to get rid of them completely because- like I said above, I am a consumer of the STR products! I love staying in a home with my kids rather than getting a hotel. It'll be very interesting to watch what's happens to this industry in the next couple years