Thanks for the encouragement everyone! It was a long process, but I did eventually buy my first home. The FSBO home I was shooting for did not work out. Long story short the owner already had some one in mind whom he wanted to sell to and had me as leverage and a back up plan. However as of August 31st 2015 I brought my first Duplex. I am currently doing a bit of house hacking.
The house was a foreclosure that sat on the market for a while and was not really well advertised. It needs very little work as the electrical, roof and most of the plumbing are only a few years old. It mostly needs cosmetic work.
The home buying process was still a daunting one the second go round. I used a Realtor this time around and we started in May and finally finished at the very end of August. The selling bank I brought the home from surprisingly were really easy to work with. This time around it was my team that where the tough ones. I heard it some where before, but it was really like herding cats.
I learned a lot and although it was tough I can't wait to do it again.