Quote from @Brian Lenzer:
I am considering purchasing a property through a loan from friends/family. Are there any non-obvious downsides to this kind of loan? Is there a set legal range for the interest rate? Any knowledge/resources on this would be greatly appreciated!
If you are borrowing from friends/family and plan to pool their money together in an LLC that is not secured, you will need to research state and federal law related to this type of activity as that could be considered a security in your state and/or potentially subjected to SEC regulations associated with a pooled mortgage/debt fund or private equity fund (syndication). Additionally, you should consider how long your friends/family are willing to have their money out to you. If you use DSCR loans as permanent financing, you could be locking yourself into loans with stiff prepayment penalties that usually have a 5-year prepayment step-down penalty. If your capital investors want their funds back before year five, consider how you might be able to pay them off earlier than your refinance would allow.
While borrowing from friends and family is typically the starting point for most people when finding private money loans, it's also the quickest way to sink relationships, if not done correctly or as a true business transaction. I find a lot of people just assume that since they inherently trust their friend/family member, a lot of the "what ifs" and worst-case scenarios are not hammered out in fine detail which can lead to confusion and personal interpretation after the deal is closed, which it should have been addressed pre-emptively before the money was lent out.
So my recommendations are 1) get an attorney involved so you know what your able to do legally and s/he can draft up the proper legal documentation to support the path forward, 2) consult with DSCR lenders to understand your prepayment penalties and bake that into your exit strategy with your private lenders, and 3) consider the cost of capital in relationship terms rather than monetary since that matters more than getting the money. You don't want to burn any bridges by miscommunications or not properly addressing resolution paths, buy-outs, exits, etc. in a legal manner on paper and signed by parties. If you and your family wants to become more educated in how to transact this loan safely, you could check out BP's newest book - Lend to Live: Earn Hassle-Free Passive Income in Real Estate with Private Money Lending. I happen to be one of the co-authors and an experienced private lender. Bottom line, if you plan to pool funds so that you don't have 2nd, 3rd, 4th liens, then you will need to tread lightly and ensure all parties involved are on the exact same page so that no one gets hurt/annoyed/disappointed/angry after funds are already tendered.
BiggerPockets has a new book out about private money lending. I highly highly recommend reading this before accepting capital for a real estate transaction, especially if you are borrowing from friends or family. There is just a lot that COULD go wrong, and if the deal goes sideways that could make for some very uncomfortable Thanksgiving day dinners if you know what I mean. I also wrote an article recently about gap funding from relatives and what the different scenarios look like.
The book can be found here: https://store.biggerpockets.com/products/lend-to-live
Please also note - to be safe - this should ONLY be for non-owner occupied (ie investment property). Doing loans for properties that are owner occupied (such as a MF house hack or a STR that will be occupied by the owner more than 14 days a year) have regulations for consumer protection at the federal level, that often are much more restrictive on the loan terms, who can originate the loan, etc.