Wow, thank you everyone! It is true what everyone says about this forum being full of helpful and knowledgeable people :) Thank you everyone for all the input!!!
I guess I could have been a little clearer about my goals and situation! I have no previous experience as a homeowner, I work a full time job in Bellevue and live in an apartment in Seattle (Capitol Hill, where rentals are getting really crazy). My goal with this multifamily project is to live in it and have some cash-flow. I definitely cannot do 50% down, nor 20%. It will have to be 5% or 10%, depending on the price of the property. Does this make Seattle basically off-limits for me, then? Since I want to live in this property, I don't want to end up too far away, in the middle of the nowhere or in an area I don't feel safe on my own.
Thank you @Alex Chin! That puts some perspective in the situation. Prices are indeed ridiculous and for what I hear people believe it will get worse. That's scary! I am definitely not one of those high income investors, but cash-flow is the goal. I see that you are from Seattle, and also interested in small multifamily properties, I would like to ask you if you don't mind: in what areas are you focusing now?
@Jiri VetyskaThank you! I have noticed that people end up buying for more than the asking price, and not just big investors. Families buying a primary residence also end up buying for more than the asking price. Which is confusing because when I read about investing, or listen to the BP podcasts, it is always given that buyers can negotiate discounts up to the 10%, but what I see is that buyers negotiate to pay more not less! You recommend that Seattle is not the best option for its pricing, which is true, but I don't see a huge difference outside of Seattle, in the surrounding areas. Sammamish prices are not that different, I also heard of families that end up paying more than the asking price for their primary residence there, and that's for me pretty much in the middle of the nowhere.
@Yohannes Kifle thank you for mentioning those areas, that helps to put some perspective. What other areas, aside from Lynwood, were you considering when you started looking for this 4-plex?
@Richard Scholtz, thank you for your advice! Do you think that triplexes and fourplexes can still cash-flow in Seattle, despite the exorbitant prices? If you have realtors to recommend it would be very helpful for my research :)
I am very grateful for all the comments and input, and for taking the time to answer to my rookie doubts!! :)