I take no offense at your honest feedback. I'm here asking questions because I want to look after myself. Mama didn't raise no fool.
However, to view things from his perspective, he is currently spending the majority of his free time working on a property that he has no elucidated stake in. I'd say that's "skin in the game". My issue is how to quantify that contribution vis a vis my own financial contribution and make sure we're both coming out ahead. It's easy to say "get a contractor", but those guys are hard to find, hard to trust, and expensive. I've got someone I trust who is working purely on faith because he believes in what we're doing and trusts that everything will work out in the end.
One scenario I've considered on this current property, assuming we flip: I recoup my initial investment of the purchase price, inspection, taxes, insurance, rehab costs, etc. then we split the profit 50/50. Is that fair to him, or is he is essentially only "recouping" for his labor and not actually profiting?
I'm a hippie dippy liberal arts major, folks, so I obviously need someone to tell me how it is. I'm just learning all this.