Quote from @Lydia S.:
When you say that the seller is being pushy, does that mean you’re dealing directly with the builder’s sales representative? What’s your contract say about earnest money and why didn’t you consider your own representation by a Realtor?
The contract should have outlined the amount of earnest money you deliver.
I actually have a buyers agent representing me, but still everything needs to be done ASAP and the sales rep is trying to push him aside and communicate directly with me. I don't mind that so much and understand that she is just trying to sell the house. My issue is more with the amount of the earnest money deposit, which also is outlined in the contract. In the contract it states that the this deposit is nonrefundable, but I haven't signed anything yet. When I asked my agent about all this he just said that builders do things differently - however, there is still something that seems off to me. For example, if their lender drags things out and ends up offering mortgage conditions that are wildly different than what we have discussed then I would be forced to accept those conditions or lose $50k.
I have also asked if they could lower their earnest money deposit demand to something more reasonable, which they have refused. I just do not see any rational/benign reason for them charging so much in deposit up front considering that the house has not sold for 6+ months and I will be able to close relatively fast.