@Sam Yin
I agree that I need a lot of active and deliberate action for quick progress, which is one of the reasons why I am trying to assess all the different types of REI. I know the BP public figures all state that it's best to just jump in the deep end of the pool and you'll work through the challenges, but I need to make sure that the option I pick will work towards the right path that fits my situation. Originally, I was going to jump 100% into long term SFH, but after more research, I don't think that will be the best route for my time and resources.
I have ballparked my FI number which includes my income and benefits. With my wife staying in W2, I would go onto her insurance if I chose to leave the W2 and factored in the cost difference as part of the FI. Assuming a $200/door cashflow for residential REI, I would start looking to leave the W2 when I am around 50 doors. That monthly cashflow is only to cover current expenses and not full compensation of my W2 take home pay. That assumption looks to be difficult to attain right now with prices and mortgage rates where they are without looking into C or D class neighborhoods.
I would like to hear more about the sacrifices you described. I read and listen to success stories, but I do not hear much about the ones you highlighted. They tend to glaze over the sacrifices. Can you or anyone else elaborate on examples where this happened? I currently live far enough away from extended family where we do not have any family support outside of myself and the wife. One of the goals for changing away from W2 is to get more flexibility with my time.