@Brian Burke
Thank you. I appreciate your question breakdown! With everyone's responses I'm starting to see that there are places for me to really get a lot clearer with the management companies. And that there are places where I can have some control even given the limitations of that. Should I have a copy of the deed? Can I get it from the companies?
@Leslie Pappas
That's interesting what you said about being able to contact the other owners! I did ask before but they wouldn't give me the information. Also, in your first post you asked whether I'd contacted the representative. I haven't because I just thought of him as a sales person. Can you say more about why you were thinking I should contact him? He's actually an investor in the better one..
Another question comes to mind...
Can I trust the company's analysis of selling versus refi? I don't think they are bad companies but since the investment didn't turn out anywhere close to the original predictions it makes me wonder if it is better to get out at (almost) any cost rather than hang in for another 10 years.
Thank you! This is really helpful.