@Austin S. Pogue Thanks man!
I'll try to give you the quick(ish) rundown on all headaches I've had from this, hopefully it will help for your future endeavors!
Agent Issues: Basically the agent I was using flew out of town when I found this house and wanted to make an offer. I'm a veryyy impatient person so rather than looking around vetting realtors to see who seemed like they would be a good fit- I just called some random broker and he assigned me a realtor. I had already found the home so I figured who the agent was didn't really matter because I didn't need him to do much for me... Well for starters he tried to lean me away from pursuing this house, though he didn't really have much reason. He just saw cracks in the wall and a missing ceiling and kind of wrote it off. Also he had 0 experience with fannie mae forclosures so he really didn't know any more than I did about anything. He assured me that I would have 15 days for my inspection period.. he ASSURED me - come to find out when I read the agreement I have 10 days not 15. And when I told him "hey its only 10 days" he was like "Okay sounds good" and acted like he never told me otherwise...
All of that is pretty minor - the huge thing was when he told me that I was in a bidding war with some other person and that my offer had been denied and that I was out of luck because that was my last day to bid...... I was pretty pissed after that and I was just sulking telling my gf that the deal fell apart. But after like 30 minutes of feeling bad for myself I decided to call the listing agent to see wtf had happened. He informed me that I still had until the end of the day to put in my final offer (There probably never was another bidder). So I called my realtor and told him he was wrong again- then he put in my offer- then I got it. So I'm not saying the lesson here is to not trust your realtor- but after that I will forever verify everything for myself because he almost cost me an amazing buy because he's misinformed. - this actually made me decide to get my license, which I'm in the process of now!
Contractor Issues: I had a contractor that I was initially going to do the work for me but he was realllllly bad at communicating. Like I would have to email or text him 5 times to get a response. Eventually he just stopped responding altogether which left me scrambling to find a contractor (2K of earnest money on the line- that I definitely don't want to lose). I found another contractor that seemed decent. Until he took me to a house he was working on. Seemed like he was pretty good because everything looked great as far as I could tell..... Then one of his worked lit up a cigarette right in the middle of the freshly remodeled kitchen that they worked on for an out of state investor! That was enough for me to walk away. After that I literally called over 100 people trying to find a contractor. I eventually found one though, his price was $4,000 higher than my initial guy but he seemed like he was an actual legitimate trustworthy guy. So I went with him, and it worked out great.
Lender Issues: My initial lender didn't have a clue how the construction loan worked. Pretty much every question I asked him he didn't really know the answer to and that just made things difficult to get going. Eventually I just called up the same bank (Renasant Bank) but one town over and asked for someone that knew what the hell they were doing haha. I found a guy who claimed he could help me, and he did. He was a tool to me at first though. I think its because he could tell I'm young.. or maybe that's just how he is I'm not sure. Either way it was very aggravating working with him and on one phone call I kind of snapped on him and told him to stop talking to me like I have no clue what I'm doing. After that things eased up a little but I could tell he was expecting the deal to fall apart due to me being incompetent or something. This one has a happy ending though because he was the one that called me to tell me what the house appraised for ($40K more than I paid). He was stunned on the phone because I think in that moment he finally realized I'm making a nice chunk of change.
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