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Tommy,
What I always tell my partner/husband is that it is easy to come up with the reasons or justifications on why not to set future goals or take that next step forward. It's easy to let others postpone you from doing something you're interested in. The hard part is believing in the reasons that you should. CHANGE your perspective, so you will CHANGE your attitude, to allow you to get into ACTION.
Change some of the things you said such as:
I have had tenants renting my property for a few years and so far have only had a minor set back that ran under $7,000 so I am going to adjust the amount of money we set aside for repairs when I purchase my next property. We purchased in a great area which is going to allow us to do a 1031 for our next property. I know that I'm going to make some mistake but it's great learning from others through the podcasts, blogs, and forums. Although change is scary I am excited that I'm going to create income to allow me to leave my current job to do something I enjoy.
Step 1 isn't finding a mentor it should be speaking words of affirmation to yourself. We are closing on two properties this month and I am already looking for a multifamily home. My husband thinks were moving to fast; however, I think that we're not moving fast enough to achieve our goals. He wants ten properties I think we can do 100. I would rather set high goals and expectations and fight to achieve them, then live in the should have-could have moments.
Looking forward to reading about your next property purchase.
Phillip Crew