Bringing the Mattress Discussion back up

[Lori Sullivan]

I bought two nectar mattress same type, one king and one queen.  The king is so firm that it hurts my back and neck. I can send it back.  At home I have a tempurpedic king and a pillow top queen that are older than recommended but they are very comfortable.  I will be sending the nectars back but dont want to keep making the same mistake with a online box mattress.  Recommendations??????