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difficult situation, please help!
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There's a funny thing about landlording. Folks would never go to the grocery store with a story of why they should get free groceries. Or the gas station. But somehow its always expected that landlords should be flexible as far as paying the rent.
First there's this weirdness with the VA payments. Now he's lost his job, too. At best he's living on the edge financially. But may well be there's more to this than you're hearing and he's stringing you along. He lost his job two weeks ago, but the initial excuse for no rent was the VA payments. Now you're hearing about the job. What else is waiting in the wings to be the next reason you don't have rent? These are the tenant's problems, not yours. Your problem is the lack of rent. Stay focused on that and not all this "story".
I'll stand by the advice to find a landlord/tenant attorney. You need one in any any case. And get their advice on how to proceed.