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Chris Gawlik
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Can you tell me the answer?

Chris Gawlik
  • Investor
  • Yucaipa, CA
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This is going to be a strange post but wanted to give it a shot and see if I get any replies at all. I have always wanted to be successful. Its something I wanted my entire life. I wanted people to look up to me and say man that guy made it. I want my family to be proud of me and look at me as being a financially independent person. I am still striving to become this successful person. I have always wondered around the internet looking for new opportunity or quicker ways to make money in RE or the next big thing. I jump from one thing to the other looking for THE ANSWER. The answer is an exact blue print to follow. This blue print is the exact path and plan to follow to become the person I have wanted to be my entire life. The answer will show me the way and take away my fear to make me the person I have always wanted to become. I believe many people on this site have that blueprint. And if I asked them to give me the blueprint they would. They would tell me exactly what they did that made them the person that I want to become. But when they hand me the blueprint, I get scared and I don't know what to do with it. Its everything I ever wanted but I'm to scared to use it and run away and fail. Again and again I run away and fail and fail again. I can never quite become that person that I have always wanted to be. Even though the answer and blueprint was right in front of me the entire time I was searching for it. Thanks guys Chris Gawlik.  

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@Scott Passman Thanks for the reply. It was a very strange post to begin with I didn't even think I would get a reply. BE, DO, HAVE. I love it man. That article really puts my feelings into perspective. The funny thing is I know that its me holding myself up to become successful. Fear, doubt, depression, stress, anxiety. What if, what if, what if. That article was really good though. Who do I need to be. Not what do I need to do. Good stuff. Thanks Scott.

My post was basically how I have felt about investing and risk taking my entire life. All my failures and successes that I have had I still don't truly feel satisfied with were I am at. I'm hoping I can change that in the next 10 years or so. Any way weird to post something so abstract on BP. Just wondered if anyone has felt the same and overcome to become really successful or satisfied with where there at in life. Thanks.  

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