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Multiple choice counter offers?
I have had a couple of bad experiences with appraisals coming in very low with certain lenders and have taken the suggestion of some BP members to try to convince buyers to use my lender.
I have offered a variety of incentives, including paying for inspection, appraisal and closing costs if they use my lender and no incentives if they use their lender. In each case, the buyer has walked. I am wondering if this could be because the buyers feel that they are being forced to do something against their will and whether I should give them multiple choices to choose from.
Here's a an example from today. The buyers offered $295K, I countered $315K and I pay closing costs if they go with my lender, and the buyer countered back that they are OK with the $315K but only with their lender and I should pay closing costs. What do you guys think about a possible response as follows:
Seller would like buyer to choose from one of the three options below:
Option A
1. Price is $314,900. Buyer can use buyer's preferred lender.
2. Seller will pay up to 3% towards buyer's costs.
3. If lender's appraisal comes in below purchase price, seller will
reduce the closing cost contribution by the amount by which appraisal is less than purchase price.
Option B
1. Price is $314,900. Buyer uses seller's preferred FHA lender.
2. Seller will pay up to 3% towards buyer's closing costs.
3. If the appraisal comes in below purchase price, seller will reduce the closing cost contribution by half of the amount by which appraisal is less than purchase price.
Option C
1. Price is $314,900. Buyer uses seller's preferred conventional
lender's 5% down program.
2. Seller will pay up to 3% towards buyer's closing costs.
3. There will be no reduction in seller's closing cost contribution
based on the appraisal.
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I tend to tie whether I'll pay closing costs to whether the buyer will use my closing attorney (if they use my atty, I'll pay all their closing costs), as opposed to whether they'll use my lender.
My reasoning being, the main reason I want the buyer to use my lender is so I can ensure a smooth closing with as little risk to me as possible.
So, if the buyer insists on using their own lender, the question to ask is, "How can I still ensure that the closing goes smoothly, with as little risk to me as possible?"
The answers as I see them:
- Short financing and appraisal contingency periods. Generally, if the buyer uses their own lender, I give 10 days for appraisal contingency (no reason the first appraisal shouldn't be ordered within 1-3 days after the contract is signed) and no more than 14-21 days for the financing contingency (if the lender can't figure out if the buyer is qualified in 2-3 weeks, I don't want anything to do with that lender);
- I ask that the closing date be set to 30 days after the contract is signed. Most FHA lenders will say they can't hit that time frame these days, so I'll use this as an opportunity to reiterate that my lender can get it done this quickly, and if the buyer wants a quick close, this is an extra incentive for them to use my lender;
- Also, I will reiterate that by using my lender, I'll pay for inspection and appraisal costs, and I'll make sure the entire process goes smoothly.
At this point, if they choose to use their own lender under these terms, I'm okay with it, because my risk is now very low, which is my primary goal.