define advertising self promotion from networking

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1. Say someone posts a forum. with a question in a field I specialize in; retail commercial sales. I reply. Saying "I reed your forum asking of this question in this field in which I specialize in May you reach out to me. Send me a connection message."

2. Say it's something where oh I want to network with this person. I send him a connection request. with a message "I heard you had a question on this subject matter retail commercial. May we discuss of this some more." In this same message or in the following I put my phone number. 
I'm not a plus or a pro member with bp.
See I'm not selfish; but I'm grateful with bp free service. I'm concerned; however wether I'm being internally investigated thin skinned, from some of the bp modifiers who are in same field; me retail commercial. Wether a conflict of interests is arising; no; I'm not a crybaby😭. I; good self esteem. But I don't like people putting ceilings over me; I like to raise the bar, refinerie.