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What to say to hard money lenders on your first real estate deal.
I am looking to start a relationship with a Hard Money Lender to do fix & flips in my city. I have only purchased my current home. I have never done a real estate investment deal before.
I am planning to sit down with a Hard Money Lender this weekend.
1.) What should I bring?
2.) What do I need to know?
3.) What kinds of things can help me to be more likely to get a loan?
4.)What kinds of things could hurt me?
Thank you so much!
Anything helps!
-Jake
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My first deal was with a HML and I hadn't done a deal before but I was knowledgeable since I was researching REI for over half a year before I even though about dipping my toes in the water. I was honest with them and showed that I was eager to learn. If they asked me something I did not know, I researched it right away and returned their calls/messages ASAP.
Also the deal had a lot of room for error. My debt to income was 10%, I had a full time job and lived at home. They knew if I didn't pay or abandoned the deal, that they could still make money on it.
At the end of the day it is a numbers game. HML are not in the business of flipping homes or doing what you're doing, they are in the business of lending. It is a calculated risk for them and you need to make sure the rewards outweigh the risks.
Bring your financials, financials of the property, comps on the property, your multiple exit strategies. They will probably ask you what if scenarios on the deal.