How to Start Out in Real Estate Investing in a High Cost of Living Area

[Edward Suess-Hassman]

Looking to get into Real Estate. I've been reading a few books on Bigger Pockets. Looking at possibly picking up "Small and Mighty Real Estate Investor" and " Wealth Without Cash". However, it seems my local area (San Jose / Bay Area) might not be the best as I know most of the win is in the buy. However, there is still so much I don't know. 

Wife won't let us house hack (we have a house, and a daughter). We have some REITs. 

Looking for guidance, networking and a path forward. Thanks!