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How Do I Write a Proposal to a Private Lender?
Hi,
I'm very excited and very new to real estate investing. I have been learning a lot over the past couple months and in talking to a coworker I learned that she has some money she wants to invest in real estate. I'm planning to have lunch with her Wednesday to get a better understanding of what she wants and what I can provide.
At this point do I create some sort of "real estate proposal" to hash out what I can do for her or what markets I think we can get good ROI on her investment? How upfront should I be when trying to "close this deal"? I'm a terrible liar and don't want to want to mess up our friendship.
My plan is to use her money for down payment and closing cost (where applicable) and then split the cash flow 50/50. Is that a fair deal? I suspect that I will do all the heavy lifting in this venture. Thanks for any help and insight.
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Hello @Marc Ferguson,
Congratulations on your start in investing in Real Estate!
The best advice I can give here is to Not Lie At All. It's probably a good thing you aren't a good liar, that is not the best idea when speaking to a private lender. This is due to: if you have to lie to them about numbers to get the deal, the deal doesn't make sense to begin with, you can lie to your lender but the numbers themself provide the real truth.
Continuing on, aside from that, I think a well outlined proposal is an outstanding idea. I am not sure what side of investing you are going into here (Flipping, Wholesaling, Renting) but make sure the numbers make sense before you have lunch with your lender/friend. Bigger Pockets actually has plenty of resources that will calculate your cash flow, outline your potential and create easy to read graphs so that you and your partner can see how much cash flow is really coming out of your investment.
The biggest thing I can say is to have a clear understanding of where each of you stand in this journey. The cash flow split is completely up you, however, make sure it makes sense with what each of you bring to the table. Furthermore, when it gets closer to time to close, have everything in writing and go through all the right steps even though you are friends. At the end of the day Business is Business and Pleasure is Pleasure: Keep them as separate as possible.
Good Luck on your Journey Marc, I wish you the best of luck and plenty of cash flow!
-Your Friend, -Dakota