The only way you'll win is if the 2nd buyer will withdraw their offer voluntarily and the seller's attorney will explain that the buyer was not a serious buyer. 

Lawyers are in some ways like teachers, they're drafting contracts, arguing in court, writing letters/memos/opinions, so it's ask them to explain the process of setting up a protection plan.

Yes.. please explain.. not sure what you mean with "i signed two sale transactions on my home"

Managing and or construction of STVRs also will qualify as meeting guidelines of a RE professional .I'm not sure what you're trying to explain to me with that response. 

@Daniel Dietz thanks for taking the time to explain how you make this type of partnership work, I really appreciate it.

So it is possible I am not clearly explaining what I am looking for when I speak to them. 

This explains who you need on your bus!

Contact the city/county and explain what you intend to do (without giving name or address).

., I will give some flexibility to a good tenant like this when an issue arises, but if its more than a small amount of flexibility I will require them to explain the situation and how/when it will be resolved AND also to provide documentation.

He explained how they make money and answered all of my due diligence questions with honest and concrete answers.