You business model is that of a flipper and this is an "accident".You can see how many things in your specific situation could go either way depending on what was actually going on. 

I was wondering if there are Hard Money lenders that close faster, or any other way for me to get these home under contract so I can actually close the deals.

Yes, you can screen them, get referrals, etc, but until you actually work with them and see them in action it is a big risk. 

Two years ago I bought a house via FHA ($2.000 down,lol, actually I only paid $500 and the agents used some of their cut to make the deal happen.

Nobody will accept an offer if they don't know whether you can actually buy it.That's especially important around here because anything that's a reasonable deal will go under contract very quickly. 

But when you're in the trenches, and reality is clobbering you in the face, you MUST be able to get everything out on the table, discuss what's going on, and make hard decisions.Trust but verify. 

The seller-like many in this market-have their eyes filled with dollar signs and can no longer see reality.

It just feels like I'm racking up a massive amount of debt and waisting my time while I could actually be working.Thanks for reading!

Remember as a investor you must accept the reality that you are putting it all on the line and as such risk losing it all. 95% of new investors fail to start or start and lose/get out early.

In fact I did a search through our records and I wasn't able to find any communication between you & us at all.Beyond that, are you actually qualified to determine what is good & bad construction pricing?