The search continues, so you are not alone in finding the perfect lender, if they exist.I try to put myself in the lenders shoes, and there ultimate goal is to maximize the rate of return on deployed capital. 

In your shoes I would reach out to owners in the complex and see what the new buyers are doing for funds.

You have provided a valuable lesson for everyone hoping to be in your shoes someday

BTW, I barely came out of that deal with my big boy shoes still on, but persistence and exposure ended in a settlement with the offending party. 

Her telecommuting options are very limited, and she has no desire to leave her current job.Current Financial State:Saving $5k per month to put towards investments or extra debt paymentsHave around $110k in fixed-rated debt (all 6.5% interest or less)Have around $40k in variable-rate debt (currently at 7.95%)The Million 2.5 Thousand Dollar Per Month Question: If you were in my shoes, how would you reach my goal as quickly as possible?

Everyone who's a member of BP was once also in your shoes so rest assured you're in good company.

I have a house that I'd like out of and I'd actually pay out of pocket to get rid of so if I were in your shoes I'd sell and feel good about it. 

And when you are done working for the day you strip down to your birthday suit and throw away ALL your clothes including shoes , to avoid getting anything in your truck or home . 

I think most of the people on here are in the same shoes you are, myself included.

Puppies usually go after personal property, shoes or furniture not doors or light fixtures.