Unfortunately, the note holder is a 75+ your old widow with a disabled adult daughter so she's very unwilling to extend it because her health is ailing.Do you know of anyone who would be a private lender that might be interested?

I have a condo and have been considering renting it out and moving home with my recently widowed mother to help out and to be able to afford another investment property.

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Maybe you can find a widowed owner?

I'll just throw this out:Not every deal that meets your terms has to involve maximally screwing over a widow or divorcee. 

The need to find good partners that can that can perform ie: not be widow shoppers is very important.

Using Remainders to Remedy Upside Down, Unsustainable Financing, Personal Debt Liability: The elderly widow is unable to sustain the payments on an indexed loan.

Shortly thereafter I found that the widow had not properly transferred the estate.

I've had 90 year old widows chase my asset managers off with a shotgun when they went to do their inspection or lockout.

I am a 55-year-old widow of six years.