@john @John Erlanger  Your posts here are abrasive and disrespectful.

People who are abrasive don't understand that they are.

I find it grating, abrasive, and at times offensive. 

In general Mary is rude and abrasive in all correspondence. 

@John FaradyJohn, she understands what your saying and she agrees.What you’re not seeing is that your responses are abrasive, demeaning, and come off rude.We are all in the same boat.

I really appreciate your response and when I read my 1st response back I think I was a little abrasive (sorry) 1 thing about covered CA is age, those us that are a little more (ummm) seasoned pay more lol.Its funny because I've got friends that weren't trying to be investors and got lucky on the buy, rode high appreciation & bounced with $ to another state.

Perhaps it was where I said there is a surefire way to discredit yourself, I'll admit to my abrasiveness.

Personally I'm ok with that response...I don't find it abrasive nor rude, just direct and short.

I know a few people can be a little abrasive just like in real life.