â€Again, I am bringing up the cost and building anxiety in the minds of the seller about all of the costs involved.

I had 5% excitement and 95% anxiety.

Also check out an ebook called Performance Anxiety: Creating A Fortune Investing In Non-Performing Real Estate Loans by Gordon Moss, great stuff and easy read.

I guess it all depends on your threshold for pain - if you could really talk to this guy and work things out , then it may be salvagable    - perhaps he just got though dealing with some major life issues and took it out on you - just remember - this guy is living in your property and you have to keep dealing with him on a regular basis - the property management industry can be better defined as a "people management" industry - so it may be good to learn how to deal with these type of situations so that you can get a thick skin  - personally , having dealt with problem tenants and with ideal tenants - I would choose the temporary loss of replacing a bad tenant with a good one any day of the week, cause there is really no way to quantify the piece of mind that comes with having and excellent tenant vs the anxiety of dealing with someone unstable

In my experience, the main reason for the construction "anxiety" from OOS investors is due to the lack or inability to develop real trust with an experienced GC.

There are also a lot of books out there, some that I've heard of and purchased (still waiting for them in the mail) are Invest in Debt, Performance Anxiety, Paper Profits, Turning Distressed into Success.  

Does anyone else get bad anxiety the few days before a closing?

My brother suffers from depression, anxiety and has ulcerative colitis so due to things snowballing health wise he needed to move back with our parents.

Because people with Tourettes usually in adult hood deal with severe anxiety, depression, OCD, and ADHD.

I keep on telling myself that they're just numbers, and even though they're bigger the math is the same... just to ease my anxiety a bit!