It may take 3 - 4 months, but that depends on where you're located.My best guess is that she has done this before and assumes you're an amateur by sending the emails and texts.

Having a bubble and easy-going personality is nice but your target market perceives such behavior as frivolous and amateur-ish (again, this is not about you because I don't know you... just my thoughts having dealt with this level of client).

If you pay someone to do it, you’re either paying a lot for someone who can do it right, or youre paying an amateur to do a s*** job.

Speaking from experience, in 3 or 4 floor rowhouses with narrow stairs you wouldn't want amateurs moving appliances up and down, I've had pros from Lowes lay waste to my stairwell. 

I am a total newbie and amateur and never have done anything like this so I want to invest my money wisely and make residual income.

told the guy to go F himself basically what is this amateur hour .

The days of wholesaling being a beginner's strategy or something for amateurs or dabblers are long gone.A starting point is to be a birddog for an experienced wholesaler.  

Hot markets are for amateurs who think they can make money by buying where the competition is most intense and the prices are highest.  

And why do only the amateurs get to know it?

I'm sorry, but this thread is full of amateurs.401k is a law, not an asset class.