It doesn't have to be a big confrontation... it doesn't have to be some dramatic talk...

I recently got back to town and confronted them with all the problems I have with their management, and I'm trying to decide what to do next.

AND THEN COMPARE THAT TO A TRADITIONAL REALTOR SALE.I confronted them on a public post of Opendoor on Facebook, you can see for yourself how it went below(after my question about them charging 19% they stopped responding): HERE IS THE ORIGINAL POST

I confronted the tenants and they said they like to add the new person on the lease.

Good records has an objective to clarify and avoid confrontation, not compound and invite it

As a tenant I have always been very easy and non confrontational, but after I found out my land lord, who is my neighbor, was running their jacuzzi off of my electrical panel, I've always had to question their integrity.

I don't expect Scenario 1 to happen easily, but if we can have a couple conversations and spend a few bucks to get us close to that scenario, we'll be far better off than if we take a confrontational stance and motivate him to push us all into Scenario 2.In any case, we'll get something started tomorrow.

Would love any other insight or tips as we confront this issue. 

The simple answer is to confront them with your concerns.

They are pretty thug -ish too, which might compromise my safety if I need to confront them to leave.My agent is telling me that the only way to actually get her out of the unit is if I need to move one of my family members in to it.