Should I switch mortgage lenders ?

[Xavier Mc holder]

Hey so I am in the process of purchasing my first home it is new construction. I decided to get some upgrades on the property that I already paid out of pocket. The lender is now telling me that “ You can’t pay for selections out of pocket to keep the sales price lower than what you are actually paying for the home to be completed”. With that said they would like to add the price of my upgrades to the sales price of the home. Ultimately dose t this hurt me as a buyer do you guys think I should look for another lender?