South Jersey, NJ · Member since 2014 · 154 posts · 50 votes
Me, my father and Uncle (Mr. money bags) are all interested in getting into real estate. We all bring our own skills to the table, I'm computer savvy, able to find deals, and negotiate. My dad is a handyman and my Uncle has a lot of capital. We were all thinking of making our first purchase together, something small and cheap. We figure by doing it this way it'll make it easier to learn and spread the expenses around. Honestly my first deal I just want to get my feet wet and learn without getting discouraged if it doesn't go exactly according to plan.
Obviously there's something to be said about doing it on your own so you don't have too many cooks in the kitchen, but what does everyone think about getting into your first purchase with others to help learn and cover costs?
Real Estate Broker · Canton, GA · Member since 2010 · 15k+ posts · 11k+ votes
10y
You need an operating agreement drawn up by a specialist attorney. Do not skip this step just because it is family.
Defined roles and exits are key. Everyone gets excited going into a deal with the thoughts of making big money. When it goes the other way after purchase and people start losing money and creating stress in their lives then everyone points the finger and lays blame.
That's when you need to point to the written and SIGNED operating agreement notarized by all parties.
Hope for the best but plan for the worst is what investing is all about. You might never use it but you will sure be glad you have it if you do.
Real Estate Broker · Canton, GA · Member since 2010 · 15k+ posts · 11k+ votes
10y
You need an operating agreement drawn up by a specialist attorney. Do not skip this step just because it is family.
Defined roles and exits are key. Everyone gets excited going into a deal with the thoughts of making big money. When it goes the other way after purchase and people start losing money and creating stress in their lives then everyone points the finger and lays blame.
That's when you need to point to the written and SIGNED operating agreement notarized by all parties.
Hope for the best but plan for the worst is what investing is all about. You might never use it but you will sure be glad you have it if you do.
Investor · Minneapolis, MN · Member since 2015 · 20 posts · 21 votes
10y
I agree with the above, but would recommend to make it as "friendly" as possible, with the key point of meeting expectations- don't over promise just to get a deal done, and do talk about a reasonable scenario of loosing.
I would recommend to look for a lower risk / lower return 1st deal, to get things moving and everyone comfortable with the process.
(Spend a lot of time learning!!)
Good luck!
Investor · Jonesboro, AR · Member since 2015 · 241 posts · 132 votes
10y
Eric P. My first question to you would be, who empties the trash can when its full?
In a past life I owned a retail store and had a partner. Being young and inexperienced I didn't draw up a partnership agreement and we didn't assign roles. For the first few months we were passionate and if something needed done, we did it. However as time passed the little things started becoming a big problem. I felt like he wasn't doing his job, or pulling his part of the load and I assume he felt the same towards me. This worsened until it caused me to chose to end the partnership. We were highly successful, had a solid business, but that was ruined by a lack of clear roles. Everything should be discussed, written down and signed. Everything includes taking out the trash:)
What happens in the case of death, divorce,disinterest? I have had many partnerships and personally wouldn't do another one. You can do it alone and if you need their help you can hire them.
I think it is a great idea to partner up. You all have specific skill sets to bring to the partnership. Outline your skills and responsibilities in a partnership agreement and proceed
If it doesn't work out, you can always sell and part ways. Just make sure to have everything in writing
South Jersey, NJ · Member since 2014 · 154 posts · 50 votes
10y
all great points.. I was always told an exit strategy at the beginning is one of the most important things to have. We'd look for something small, simple and cheap and use it more for learning rather than making money, though if we can do both that would be great lol! even if we had to hold it till it sells lossing $ each month its only like $200 a month each, and if we have to sell for a loss it's again split. Being this is a first there's more opportunity for things to go wrong, so just teaming up to spread the risk. Once we do the first one and we learn all that's involved we may branch out to purchase our own