Lender issues and 1099 status

[Dane Silchenstedt]

My wife has been 1099 for a year and a half. No one is giving us a loan because they said she has to have two years min. We found a lender and we clearly expressed the issue we were having. Now we found a house and did all the inspections but this lender is now saying we don’t qualify because she doesn’t have two years.?.?. I am stressed out now. I don’t know what to do from here. We are financially involved now and emotionally. This was going to be our personal residence. Any ideas? We need help.!.