Beginning Investor: Real Estate for the Shy

[Tyler Ellis]

I have problem. 

At this time, I am acting as a sponge and am in the process of educating myself the basics of real estate investing. I have the principles and theory of it down in my head. I understand the strategies, the numbers, exit-strategies, financing, and the need for marketing techniques. But the hardest obstacle that my mind seems like it will never be able to get past is going up to sellers, lenders, buyers, contractors, and really anyone involved in this lifestyle, and trying to speak intelligently about something that I've only read or listened to about. And I am also very introverted and shy to boot! 

I want this lifestyle more than anything and am willing to put the work in. I am treating this as a personal business venture, not a get rich quick scheme and have even contacted an attorney (for entity set up advice) and started a business plan. I have joined BP in hopes of connecting with like-minded individuals and gathering as much info and advice as possible. But I just can't seem to get past this invisible wall of me overthinking things and becoming "stage struck" when its time to start talking to people and making moves. 

Is there anyone who may have some advice for a shy person wanting to make their mark in real estate? How do I overcome the fear of speaking to experts in the field, when I don't have anything to offer them? Or how can I overcome the fear of public speaking and shyness in general? 

I realize this may be an odd, off the topic real estate question,  but its the biggest one on my mind at the moment. Any advice or help would be greatly appreciated. 

Sincerely, 

Tyler