In my case I still have one land trust per LLC.Also, don't forget that Florida single member LLCs have lost the charging order as sole remedy since Olmstead vs FTC.

What would you do in our shoes?

What would you do in our shoes? 

Even if you don’t, what would you do if you were in my shoes?

As for the walking around, I assume it is non carpeted floors so suggest tenant toss down some carpet runners etc to help dampen sound, get softer soled slippers, etc.  

do I just take the loss as the sole proprietor of the contracting company has passed?

What I did hear was if you purchase your property in an LLC and you're the principal or sole member, that amount of time in the LLC is allowed to be counted toward the 6 months of seasoning before you can refinance. 

If I were in your shoes, I'd try to find a more reliable and responsive lender as this lender doesn't seem to be overly concerned about garnering your business.

Where you going solely off of sold comps?

If I were in your shoes, I'd take the overseas job and look for properties to house hack while there.