I won't have majority ownership of the LLC, but will have control... and will be doing "most" of the work. 

Not surprised, though...AIR is really getting out of control.

I think it means that ADUs are allowed to be build in Multifamily Zoning, but it doesnt say specifically that if there is an existing multifamily home (2-4 units included) that it would allow an additional ADU on the parcel Typically local jurisdictional control only allow the ADU to be built where there is an existing Single Family Home, independent of the zoning

All the money goes to assets that are controlled by a small percentage of people.

If you can't keep control of your personal finances, you are highly unlikely to succeed in real estate investing.

If you can't keep control of your personal finances, you are highly unlikely to succeed in real estate investing.

Then they can take control.

Certainly there is some level of control that I would be giving up, but this is where vetting the company, reviewing the agreement, and building trust comes in.

The only thing the spouse could do is claim the mortgage interest on his/her tax returns.But that would be wrong since you have control over the property. 

If you can't keep control of your personal finances, you are highly unlikely to succeed in real estate investing.