When I remarried 4 years ago, I moved my family to my new husband's home and put a FOR SALE sign on mine. 

I remarried in 2018 and moved into my wife's home3.

Just for those who are wondering I am happily remarried and all my children live with me.

Here's an excerpt directly from the VA's site regarding surviving spouses:SpousesThe spouse of a Veteran can also apply for home loan eligibility under one of the following conditions: Unremarried spouse of a Veteran who died while in service or from a service connected disability, orSpouse of a Servicemember missing in action or a prisoner of warSurviving spouse who remarries on or after attaining age 57, and on or after December 16, 2003(Note: a surviving spouse who remarried before December 16, 2003, and on or after attaining age 57, must have applied no later than December 15, 2004, to establish home loan eligibility.

Some info about the property - about 2,200sqft, 2 story SFR, 4b/2.5b, built 95', unfinished basement, 2 car garage, owner owes approx. 30k on mortgage.Motivation on the seller's end - got remarried and moved out 2-3 years ago, still paying on mortgage, new wife hates he is always stopping over there checking on the property, busy with work so hasn't got around to deferred maintenance (water damage, broken gutters, etc...), doesn't really have time to fix up to list property.Best comps I could find in neighborhood within past 9 months - 2,630sqft, 3b/3b, 2 story SFR, $173,000... 2,688sqft, 3b/3b, fully finished basement, tandem 4 car garage, 2 story SFR, $235,000... 1,992sqft, 3b/2b, ranch, $205,000... 2,300sqft, 4b/2.5b, built 95', 2 story SFR, $243.000.Do I have something potentially good to work with here? 

Nope, you'll have to remarry the guy.

I divorced my wife after 18 years of her being a drug addict and even though I got re-married I still love my ex-wife as much as the day I met her.

What if one of them dies and the surviving parent wants to remarry/have a BF/GF over and you don't like the new romantic interest but they cannot afford to get their own place?

Though, GREAT suggestions.She's remarried and probably in her 60's or 70's.

Her ex & her bought this house 8 months ago, and he divorced her & is remarried already.