He could attempt to do a loan modification (loan mod) with the lender, though this would cut you out but would be great for him if his goal is to stay in the house. 

I have a goal to get a multi family / duplex to live in now and also get rent from another party.

My goal is to completely offset my projected income by 2024 so that I will have the option to walk away if I should decide that I want to (likely will not but having options is what I want most).

I'm here now because we are ready to take the leap and I want to learn more about real estate investing and I want to get to know more people with this same passion.I'm really excited to be here, I really feel like this is part of my commitment to our goals.

My goals in real estate are to learn how to get started, the different strategies you can utilize, make connections and eventually help others out as I become more experienced!

My goal right now is to invest in MFHs to generate passive income that matches my military salary within 3 years.

The next answer depends on your goals. 

I am new also, but I think it depends on what your goals are...  

I am defiantly trying to sock in as much information as possible and learn as much as I can both from the content on the website and most from people that achieved their financial goal.

I'd LOVE it if we could reach our goals together..I'm looking to pick up some properties wholesale. 200 "We Buy Houses" signs are going up around town, plus radio and TV ads.